Autism

Anything related to autism or other special needs, and the corresponding resources, impacts, etc.

Schedule

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Our schedule’s been getting rough.  A lot of the therapy we were doing in-home, we are now doing in centers.  It means a lot of driving, being away from home all day, packing lunches, sitting in traffic, using the travel potty in the car.  We are still adjusting to the new routine, but the adjustment…

Quality over Quantity

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I know children’s development is usually measured quantitatively, like in numbers of words per sentence, or how high they can count, but in this mama’s world, it’s all about quality. With my first pregnancy, I was stressed about being a good mommy, and my husband always told me to focus on loving them, and the…

Denial

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I used to think denial was something people chose when they refused to deal with their emotions.  Now, I know it really is impossible to grieve without first denying. After dealing with the grief of my middle son’s diagnosis, I thought I would be fine if my third son also had a diagnosis.  I recently…

Expect Joy

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My son’s diagnosis brought a dark cloud, which seemed to suck the joy out of life.  I selfishly mourned the dreams I had for my children and our family.  I panicked with the loss of control I had over his behavior and our schedule.  His behavior, which to others seems normal for a two-year-old, was…

Learn The Signs

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The popular Autism awareness campaign slogan is “Learn the Signs. Act Early.”  That gives a false sense of security. The campaign says to read the milestones, and when your child doesn’t meet them, tell the pediatrician.  The End.  That isn’t enough.  Our pediatrician brushed us off when we told him our one year old wasn’t…

Special

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As a kid, I was amazed when a baby was born, and grew into a child and adult, with what seemed to be no problem at all.  I couldn’t wrap my head around how perfectly the body developed in the womb. When I had my first child, I was still in awe.  How did his…

The Start

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I’ve lived a sheltered, “typical” life.  I didn’t know or interact with anyone with disabilities or any special needs, nor was I raised with exceptionally positive attitudes toward those who had them.  When I found out my almost-two-year-old had Autism, I was devastated.  Though I knew my son was still the same person he was…